Inspired by Ruby: One Theta’s Journey of Becoming a Guardian Ad Litem

Growing up as the youngest in my family, I always had a deep desire to be an older sister, and I often begged my mom for a younger sibling. In 2020, this wish was granted when my mother chose to foster a 12-year-old girl named Ruby, for whom she had served as a guardian ad litem (GAL) beforehand. Ruby became part of our family for about a year, and she expressed the same feelings as me that she had always wanted an older sister. Despite my initial expectation to guide her through life's lessons and be a role model to her, Ruby profoundly influenced me in ways I never anticipated.

Despite enduring numerous challenges in and out of foster care throughout her life, Ruby radiated a remarkable resilience and consistently wore a bright smile. As we grew closer, she shared stories of her past that seemed unimaginable to me, yet she faced each trial with grace and dignity. Ruby's unwavering positivity and ability to find silver linings in every situation taught me invaluable lessons in gratitude, selflessness, confidence, and optimism.

Transitioning to Florida State University in August 2020, I approached sorority recruitment with a mix of excitement and nervousness. Upon entering Theta’s Beta Nu chapter, I immediately felt a profound sense of belonging and warmth that I had not yet felt all week. Learning about Theta's commitment to CASA/GAL (Court Appointed Special Advocates/Guardians ad Litem) during the chapter’s philanthropy round solidified my decision that Theta was where I belonged.

My early months in Theta were nothing short of amazing: I found lifelong friends; was warmly welcomed by my big, Sami; and eventually took Alexis in as my little. I met my best friends, Mackenzie and Remi, and older members like Chelsea, Sabrina, and Bridget, who were truly role models to me. I was encouraged to become a leader and pursue the things I was passionate about.

I eventually took on an executive board role and got accepted into nursing school, all because of the mentors I had in Theta helping me through the process. Most importantly, they helped me start my journey as a GAL.

I knew becoming a GAL was a path I wanted to pursue, following in my mom’s footsteps. After a months-long process, I became a GAL and received my first case as a co-GAL with another Theta. Our case involved two little girls who I have grown so close to over the past two years. Together, we conducted monthly home visits and attended court sessions on behalf of these children. Though it is extremely scary to speak in court as a 21-year-old, my passion, love, and care for these children propelled me past my nerves.

My experience as a GAL has been so rewarding, shaping me in ways I never expected and teaching me so much not only about CASA, but about life in general. I cannot thank Theta enough for leading me to this experience!

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